Who's Who
Who Are You? Well, that seems rather obvious, but is it? It brings to mind the scene with the caterpillar in Alice in Wonderland, blowing smoke rings as he askes "Whooo are you?" So many of the choices we make are because of what we think others want or think of us. It stops us from trying new things, or taking risks. Our fear of failure is stronger than our sense of adventure. Children don't have these inhibitions. They do all sorts of things for the pure joy of it. Society and it's judgmental attitudes can't be blamed for all of it. Some caution is the result of our brains becoming more capable of abstract thought. We start to see the potential consequences of our actions. This increases exponentially with adult responsibility. Shortly after I became a massage therapist, I took my boys tobagganing. As I stood at the top of the hill and surveyed the panorama below me, all I saw was breaks and sprains that would prevent me from being able to work. The last time I ...